Arrogance, bad hygiene and being spoken to in a condescending manner.

I typically see 3-4 clients on average. I wish I could see one after the other day in, day out but that takes to much of a physical and mental toll on me.

I’ll spare you all the inner monologue and general complexities of my decision to go into sexwork – it boils down to this; I became an escort to gain the financial independence required to leave a toxic, psychological fuck mess of a 7 year relationship. I don’t regret my decision even a little bit.

There’s a few things; it’s often times a great income, flexibility in my schedule to focus on and pursue my passions and being worshiped by men who pay to be in my presence.

The stigma. Having to live a double life and lie to most people that I meet and interact with. Dealing with the general public’s perception about escorts.

I began my SW career in early 2019.

No, I grew up as the only girl out of 4 siblings. I also lived with my dad as my primary caretaker for most of my childhood and he was kinda a playboy. I’ve always understood the nuanced aspects of the male psyche and extremely empathize with them. I have much admiration for men. That said, I gain new insights into the heterosexual american male all the time.

To be quite honest, I never really had many goals or aspirations to be anything. I figured I knew the simple life and meager existence that my destiny held and didnt think more was possible until I was well into my twenties.

First I dipped my toes into SW through “sugar dating” using a particularly atrocious and shameful cesspit of a site, SA. My experience was not good. The guys wanted escort services, unprotected and for an undetermined amount of time for a set rate. I quickly abandoned that idea and put an ad up. First date was in Bellingham for $500. It went fantastic and was easy as could be! BUT THEN my truck blew up on the way home and never ran again, SMH.

Probably the toilet slave request from the diaper guy. I declined, respectfully.

Ability to empathize, well versed on a wide array of topics to converse about, non-judgemental and a pro in psychology.